Ok guys, I wanted to write this because number 1, you are afraid and number 2, you don’t seem to believe in yourself.
These two things will ruin you.
As I am beginning my life coaching career most of the women I speak with come to me with fear of starting something beautiful and the self-confidence to put themselves out there. I am the first person to raise my hand if you ask if I was fearful of starting my business and lacking the self-confidence to put my face on my website. Putting yourself out there isn’t easy. It’s pretty terrifying, but I will always ask you this
“What would it feel like if you did succeed? How will your life change for the better?
This can be relatable to just about anything from business, relationships and traveling.
What is really stopping you? Someone, something? Really break it down for yourself.
Do you really want to keep feeling this way?
Focus on the power that is within you. Your mind, your heart, your body…feel it vibrate. This soul of yours needs to vibrate high and so high that the fear is just no longer even a thing.
How can you get there?
Surround yourself with your cheerleaders. They are a huge key in this. People that love you and your message. These are the people who will keep you going and encourage you along the way.
Believe in miracles. If they can do it, so can you. The power is already within you. If you thought it, you can do it. Believe in the power that is you.
Stop messing around. What do you waste your time on? Social media, watching BS reality TV… Don’t get me wrong, there is a time and a place for this, but these are huge distractions when we really need to get something done. Carve away real time without distractions to get your shit done. Enough is enough, just do it.
Ignore the people who drain the life out of you. You know who they are. Either get rid of them during this transformation process or spend way less time with them. Most importantly, don’t share your dreams and inspirations with these people. They will always find a way to want to bring you down and make you feel like you aren’t good enough. Well…. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU DO DESERVE THIS!
Transformation starts with you and you only. If you are afraid because you don’t know anything about a certain topic that you’d like to venture into, then start doing research. Start figuring out what you must do to get to the next step. Take advantage of social media and reach out to people for help. It will only start progressing if YOU actually do something.
So get to it. Start dreaming big people!
You can and you will!